Archive for July, 2010
Relationship Coach Demystifies the Power of Connections
Posted by: | CommentsYour relationship coach can help you block your limiting associations and amplify the positive forces in your life which can give you the energy to propel you to a fast break success. Firstly, depending on the size of your vision or the complexity of your goals, you may need to develop new connections and structure new partnerships to create your vision or create your goals.
So on Tuesday, I wrote to you about how your “limiting beliefs” keep you stuck in business, your career development, and financially. I talked about how the star coach of the Los Angeles Lakers Phil Jackson can see what his players don’t see on the court. And that I can see what my clients don’t see on the court of life, career, and business.
Relationships is another fruitful area where your coach can help you gain power and synergy. As I discuss relationship coaching over the months to come, it won’t be limited to keeping or finding a mate or dating. I plan to mull over all aspects of business and personal connections you have in your world.
Your Relationship Coach Helps You Optimize Connections and
Helps You to
- Diagnose how people in your game of life (core team members) can make or break you financially
- Highlights the opposing factors and opponents who are literally trying to block you from reaching your goals and being successful
- Works with you to create a plan of action to optimize your relationships with your core team members (business and personal) and eliminating or blocking your opponents in your business, career, and life — and help you get on to creating new connections to help you win the wealth championship you desire
People Verses Task Orientation
Before we move into other articles which highlight the deeper aspects of relationships in your life, I want to address one challenge that a lot of you may be dealing with right now. Do you think of yourself as a “people person”? Or do you sometimes have challenges when it comes to creating and sustaining relationships?
You may have vast connections you’ve made in life. Then you’re what I call a ”people magnet.”
You can spot a people oriented person by the fact that they only talk about the people involved and what was said and who did what. They want to know who was in the meeting or involved in making the decision. And they are less likely to get into the details of actual tasks. Matter of fact their eyes glaze over when you give them too many details. They are best suited for sales positions.
But it’s very hard work for some of us to broaden our relationships in business. We know we need to make the phone calls, network with other business owners, and get connected online in social media.
And then do you find yourself slipping back into working on the tasks that need to get done and slowly the people oriented things just don’t get done? But you know connecting with people is where your money is made.
Some people are task oriented. And they don’t naturally focus on developing relationships. Well if your vision or dreams require you to influence others or partner with others to reach your goals, then you need to overcome this weakness.
You know the “people oriented” folks need you as much as you need them. They can’t see the “trees for the forest.” And that’s where you come in with your ability to plan and break things down into detail steps for them.
In the next article, I will discuss the plan of action your relationship coach can help you create to deal with your people connection situation. And for you task challenged folks, I’ll be getting to how you need to cope with your detail and task focus.
The goal of this article is to frame the discussion about the power of your connections and associations and discuss some aspects of relationship building. Watch for more articles from me on relationships and building and sustaining profitable connections because as you’ll see the subject is very complex and can be looked at from hundreds of angles.
Future Articles Will Discuss
- Who’s On Your Team?
- Who Are Your Opponents?
- What Are Your Opposing Forces?
Relationship coaches can help you sort out your present connections and develop valuable associations on the Court of business, career, and life when it comes to your team members and your opponents. And my goal in this article as a Master Coach is to show you how your destiny is impacted by every relationship in your life.
Team coaching and optimization Helps You eliminate and avoid Your Negative relationships and Increase Positive connections.
Negative Associations and Relationships Block Your Progress
Just one bad association or close relationship you know could lead your life in the direction you most want to avoid.
I say this because negative influences coming from the people on your job, or who are in your business or life stop you from taking forward action. They block your progress when your almost about to make the “three pointer” in your business, career, and financial decisions.
And they snatch the ball right out of your hands because you allow other people in your life to distract you from your dreams and goals.
And the scarry fact is many times you’re not consciously connected to what’s really going on in your life because these influences live at the subconscious level in your mind. And if you know what’s going on that’s holding you back you tend to not want to do anything about it because you don’t want to offend the people who are in the game of your life: bosses, customers, employees, partners, spouses, etc.
Relationships get really complicated sometimes as you already know. And you get stuck playing a game you know you can’t win without coaching.
Stay In the Connections Game
Get a relationship coach to help you master the art of “profitable relationships.” A relationship coach will help you sort out the positive and negative influences on your team which have direct influence over your finances.
And you have negative forces and opponents you need to watch out for which you’re not always conscious of their influence upon you. Your coach will help you block these negative forces and the opposing team’s negative behaviors and influences from getting to you financially.
I have two ways you can get more information about mastering your connections and core relationships:
1. I offer no obligation Optimizing Connection and Relationship Coaching sessions for you to get more information on how I can help you get ahead financially. It’s easy.
You can call me at (866) 323-9123 or email me right now to schedule your complementary session.
Or go to my complementary Optimizing Connections and Relationship Coaching page to enter your contact information and I’ll contact you to set-up your consulting session.
2. For business owners and real estate professionals, you can get my complementary financing report here: The Business Survival Report

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Financial Coaching Is Like Phil Jackson Coaching Kobe Bryant
Posted by: | CommentsThe reason I say that financial coaching resembles the coaching practices that Phil Jackson goes through when he coaches Kobe Bryant is simple. Phil can see what Kobe can’t see on the court. And I can see what my clients like you can’t see on the court of life and business.
You know financial Coaches Are Your Eyes And Ears On the Court of business, career, and life. And my goal in this article as a Master Coach is to show you how your destiny is simply an accumulation of every moment of your life. So read on.
Financial Coaching helps you to
- Relate to investments and money in empowering ways by uncovering and transforming your negative beliefs about money
- Helps you identify the people in your life who negatively and positively influence your financial decisions and behaviors
- Works with you to create a plan of action to ease financial stress in your business, career, and life and get on to the road of creating the wealth championship you deserve
Coaching Helps You Minimize Your Negatives and Increase Your Positives
As we grow older in the game of life, we take on beliefs which may have served us well in our younger days. But those same beliefs are causing disruptions now in our business, career, and life — especially financially.
You’ve got to stop and pay attention to this sneaky one. Because it creeps in and corrupts your life in ways you couldn’t even imagine. So that thing we do is innocently believe what we hear in the news or read on the Internet. And we subconsciously begin to form beliefs about how the world is without critical evaluation of these ideas because they come from so called experts and our favorite politicians. . We want to:
Personally:
- Stop living month-to-month
- Pay off debt and cut-up your credit cards
- Make investments which creates wealth for you rather than disappearing on you when you most need good returns
Business and Career:
- Grow our sales
- Cut marketing costs
- Find stable employment
- Earn a promotion and increase our salary
But you don’t get what you want because you’re in conflict with beliefs from your past, including current negative beliefs about the economy. And many of you are working 60 hours a week now when you should be enjoying traveling to exotic places, driving a brand new car, and helping to invest in your children’s and grand kid’s education.
I know you understand the whole world has been impacted by the slowing economy. And this is the time when we really need to get a grip on our negative beliefs about the economy and business, career, and investments so we get back on the road of living our dreams.
Do you know What the negative beliefs are you have about money? Financial coaching will help you uncover and transform your limiting beliefs.
Phil Jackson gets into his player’s heads all the time. Phil thrives to prevent limiting beliefs from forming and causing his players to go cold on their shots. Phil can’t prevent every negative belief from taking hold in a player’s mind, but his coaching abilities keeps his players performing at a high enough level to win championships.
As a coach, the negative beliefs I’m hearing from people who are stuck today financially include:
- You know there’re no jobs out there
- I’m not good at sales
- It’s a bad time to start a business
- Banks are not lending so I can’t get a business loan
- I should wait until the economy gets better before purchasing anything
- I know the economy isn’t going to get any better for the next ten years
- The democrats are spending our future on “big government” and I just need to vote in the republicans
- And many more limiting beliefs are out there…
Limiting Beliefs Block Your Progress
I don’t know if you share any of these beliefs, but the fact is these beliefs have very little to do with what you need to do to make your personal future brighter. Just having one of these convictions or any negative idea as a core belief for you could lead your life in the direction you most want to avoid.
I say this because limiting belief such as the ones I just mentioned stop you from taking forward action. They block your progress when your almost about to make the “three pointer” in your business, career, and financial decisions.
And they snatch the ball right out of your hands because you allow other people in your life to distract you from your dreams and goals.
And the sad fact is many times you’re not consciously connected to what’s really going on in your life because these convictions live at the subconscious level in your mind. And if you know what’s going on that’s holding you back you tend to not want to do anything about it because you don’t want to offend the people who are in the game of your life: bosses, customers, employees, partners, spouses, etc.
Life gets really complicated sometimes as you already know. And you get stuck playing a game you know you can’t win without coaching.
Well my goal here is to share with you how your beliefs control every thing you do in life, what you have in life, and what you ultimately become in life. Your core beliefs creates your destiny: day by day, hour by hour, and minute by minute. Your destiny is simply an accumulation of every moment of your life. This is the key point to remember from this article.
Now in the next article, I will continue this very important and timely discussion with the two game points I sited above which included:
- Identify the people in your life who negatively and positively influence your financial decisions and behaviors
- Create a plan of action to ease financial stress in your business, career, and life and get on to the road of creating the wealth championship you deserve
Stay In the Game
I have two ways you can get more information:
1. I offer no obligation financial coaching sessions for you to get more information on how I can help you get ahead financially. It’s easy. You can call me at (866) 323-9123 or email me right now to schedule your complementary session.
Or go to my complementary consultation page to enter your contact information and I’ll contact you to set-up your consulting session.
2. For business owners and real estate professionals, you can get my complementary financing report here: The Business Survival Report











